For a long time, friendships between gay men and straight men – what some now call “bromosexual” friendships – were uncommon. Homophobia was likely one reason; another was that straight.
Hulu's newest sitcom "Mid-Century Modern" is being likened to the iconic "Golden Girls." Instead of four women living together in Miami, this one's about three gay men living together in Palm.
So saying gay men act feminine is usually an over-simplification, and is often based on outdated and sexist views. Most gay relationships are "equality-based," meaning there is not one.
First, I know gay men aren't the only ones who bareback. Straight people bareback all the time, of course, but unlike us, they don't make up titillating names for it. They just call it "having sex.".